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A baby’s cry can be upsetting and frustrating but an infant crying is normal and it will stop.

Babies often begin to cry more frequently around two weeks of age, peaking between 6-8 weeks. Every baby is different but after about 8 weeks, babies start to cry less and less each week.

What can I do to help?

Babies can cry for reasons such as if they are hungry, tired, wet/dirty or if they are unwell. Check these basic needs and try some simple calming techniques:

• Talk calmy, hum or sing to your baby
• Let them hear a repeating or soothing sound
• Hold them close – skin to skin
• Go for a walk outside with your baby
• Given them a warm bath

These techniques may not always work. It may take a combination or more than one attempt to soothe your baby. If you think there is something wrong with your baby or the crying will not stop speak to your GP, Midwife, or Health Visitor. If you are worried your baby is unwell call NHS 111.

The crying won’t stop, what can I do now?

Not every baby is easy to calm but that doesn’t mean you are doing anything wrong. Don’t get angry with your baby or yourself. Instead, put your baby in a safe place and walk away so that you can calm yourself down by doing something that takes your mind off the crying.

What not to do

Handling a baby roughly will make them more upset. Shouting or getting angry with your baby will make things worse.

Sometimes parents and people looking after babies get so angry and frustrated with a baby’s cry they lose control. They act on impulse and shake their baby. Shaking or losing your temper with a baby is very dangerous and can cause:

• Blindness
• Learning disabilities
• Seizures
• Physical disabilities
• Death

Published: Sep 19, 2024